In the wake of loss, particularly when our news feeds are saturated with headlines about violence in places like the US, Ukraine, and the Middle East, where families are often torn apart and communities left devastated, the grieving parents face an incredibly painful and challenging journey.
The reports of mass shootings or a church service in Nigeria being tragically disrupted on a Sunday, where innocent lives are gunned down, can make anyone feel helpless and afraid. In these overwhelming times, turning to the prayers of the Bible offers not just comfort but a powerful way to engage with one’s grief. These Scriptures become a crucial part of the healing process, providing strength and solace as they remind us that we are not alone in our suffering.
Personal experience has shown me that while the heart aches for the victims viewed as collateral damage in media reports, finding words to pray can be essential. It’s easy to become cynical when faced with such relentless news, yet prayer and Scriptures intertwined offer a unique way to navigate the storm of emotions.
After experiencing the death of a child, parents find themselves navigating one of the hardest challenges any parent can go through. The pain of losing a child feels life-changing, a void that might never fully heal. I know this hardship firsthand; the journey of grief stretches across years, often a lifetime.
In such times, Bible verses provide profound comfort and hope, serving as a reminder that you’re not alone. These verses act like a gentle whisper from God, pouring the Holy Spirit into our wounded hearts, changing us, helping us find a way to get over our immense loss. As a grieving mother, finding solace in God’s Word has been crucial in my healing process.
Through my experience, I’ve found purpose in helping others navigate this pain, sharing how these Bible verses can work to bring healing and comfort in times of such deep sorrow. These Scriptures promise that even amidst profound sadness, there is a pathway to thankfulness and renewed strength.
Bible Prayers: A Refuge for Bereaved Parents
Losing a loved one—whether it’s a friend, family member, or pet—inflicts a pain that can feel almost impossible to heal. For parents who face the unimaginable loss of a child, this heartbreak tests all facets of life, demanding strength they may never have had to summon before.
In these moments, turning to Bible verses can provide comfort and support, helping to mend a broken heart over time. These scriptures serve as reminders that through faith and prayer, healing can begin, and the process of grieving does not have to be carried alone. They offer a spiritual muscle that, much like adulting, requires us to be patient and strengthen with each passing day.
As someone who has witnessed the deepest grief of mothers—from the death of a spouse to the aching void left by a beloved child who made wrong choices or turned away from following God—I’ve seen the power of prayer in action.
Through writing and sharing the lessons learned from my own struggles with grief many years ago, including a miscarriage, I’ve found a way to be there for others. By sitting with them in their tears, offering a prayer of encouragement, or making jokes to lighten the moment, I bless and support these grieving parents. It’s a fit testament to how God uses our experiences to comfort others, showing that even in loss, our lives can bring hope to others.
Guided Prayers for Bereaved Parents
When grief reaches into the deepest corners of our hearts, there’s a yearning for solace and understanding that sometimes feels too profound to handle alone. For mamas and dads who have faced the heartbreaking loss of a precious baby, the journey can seem unbearably lonely.
However, it’s important to know it’s okay to need help. Coming alongside a parent who has lost a baby by offering meaningful support can make a significant difference. Using prayer, infused with Scripture, as a powerful tool for comfort, provides not just relief but a strong, shared connection through faith.
In this blog post, I want to share key prayers and Scriptures that act as a helping hand for bereaved parents. These are rooted in the timeless wisdom and faithful promises of the Bible. Each prayer is a reminder of God’s unchanging love, designed to help illuminate the path forward with empathy and support.
For every grieving mother or bereaved mother, reading examples of these prayers can be a step toward comforting a grieving mama’s heart during such a time of loss. These verses provide hope and assurance that they do not go through this alone.
Bible Prayers for Bereaved Parents
Pray that God would meet her in her need
In the Psalms, psalmists often ask God to hear their plea and not hide His face during times of distress. They express a deep need to see God’s intervention and meet their sorrows with hope.
This section will give examples of such prayers, supporting them with Bible verses that reflect this plea. These prayers are especially poignant for mamas who have lost a baby, showing that they can pray the same, knowing they are not alone in their grief.
Prayer:
Dear Heavenly Father,
As we come to you with hearts heavy with sorrow, we stand in behalf of [Mother’s Name] who is enduring the pain of losing a precious child. Lord, we ask that you, God of all comfort, wrap your arms of love around her during this time of need. Be her refuge and strength, a constant presence and source of solace.
Grant her the courage to face each day, lift her broken heart to you who are near the brokenhearted and save the crushed in spirit. Provide peace that surpasses all understanding and let her find rest for her weary soul as she walks through the valley of darkness. Let her feel your guiding hand and know each step of the way is watched over by you, Rock and Redeemer. In the name of Jesus, we pray, Amen.
Bible verses for bereaved parents:
- 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 (ESV): “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.”
- Psalm 34:18 (ESV): “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.”
- Psalm 46:1 (ESV): “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.”
- Psalm 73:26 (ESV): “My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.”
- Psalm 147:3 (ESV): “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”
- Isaiah 41:10 (ESV): “Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”
- Matthew 5:4 (ESV): “Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.”
- Matthew 11:28 (ESV): “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.”
- Romans 8:38-39 (ESV): “For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.”
Pray that her needs would be met
When a mama has lost her child, the grief can feel insurmountable, touching every aspect of her life emotional, spiritual, and physical needs all bear the weight of her sorrow. Scriptures like Philippians 4:19 assure us that God will supply all our needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus.
This promise extends to those deep in grief, reminding them that just as God cares for the sparrows, so too does He care for us, attentively tending to our every need. By casting all our anxieties on Him, as 1 Peter 5:7 encourages, we open ourselves to His loving care and restoration.
We should pray that through the comfort promised in 2 Corinthians 1:3-4, every bereaved mother can remember that God’s grace is sufficient and available, and she can pour out her heart in prayer, trusting God to meet her needs in these trying times.
Prayer:
Gracious Heavenly Father,
we come to You with hearts heavy on behalf of [Mother’s Name], who is walking through the deep pain of losing her beloved child. Lord, as the ultimate provider and sustainer, we ask You to meet her needs in every aspect of life. Emotionally, be her comforter and healer; Physically, grant her strength and rest; Spiritually, draw her closer to You, giving peace that surpasses understanding; Relationally, surround her with a supportive community that shows love.
May she be reminded through Your Word that You are near the brokenhearted and that Your grace is sufficient. Help her find solace in Your promises of hope and eternal love. In Jesus’ name, we pray, Amen.
Bible verses:
- Philippians 4:19 (ESV): “And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus.”
- Psalm 34:18 (ESV): “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.”
- Psalm 147:3 (ESV): “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”
- Matthew 5:4 (ESV): “Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.”
- Isaiah 40:31 (ESV): “But they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint.”
- 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 (ESV): “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.”
- Matthew 11:28-30 (ESV): “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.”
- Romans 15:13 (ESV): “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope.”
- Psalm 91:1-2 (ESV): “He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will abide in the shadow of the Almighty. I will say to the Lord, ‘My refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I trust.”
Pray that her faith would not fail
In Luke 22:31-32, Jesus addresses Simon Peter, revealing that Satan has demanded to sift him like wheat, but Jesus prayed that his faith would not fail. This passage is a profound reminder of Jesus’ care and concern for his disciples amid their challenges and trials, much like He cares for us today.
It reassures us that even when faith feels stinkin’ hard to maintain, as when a son is in the NICU and the situation feels gloomy with death looming, Jesus has already interceded on our behalf. Such a verse can strengthen a mother who has lost a baby, encouraging her to keep trusting in God despite the darkness.
Drawing from personal experience, I remember how holding onto specific verses brought comfort during my own times of trial. John 6:68 speaks of having nowhere else to go but to the Lord, for His words are of eternal life—a mini God-conversation that pushed me through.
The Bible became a lifeline during my long hospital stay, helping me stay sane amid hard news from doctors. Such prayers and supporting Bible verses are crucial, providing faith that is steadfast and an example that we can hold onto in our darkest hours.
Prayer:
Dear Heavenly Father,
In this time of profound sorrow, we lift [Mother’s Name] to You. As she faces the heart-wrenching pain and heartache of losing a baby, we pray that her faith will not fail. Strengthen her, Lord, with Your unfailing presence and grace. Like Job, Naomi, and Paul who endured great trials, grant her the strength to hold onto Jesus in the midst of her storm.
May Your Word be her source of comfort, reminding her that nothing can separate her from Your love as promised in Romans 8:38-39 and 2 Corinthians 1:3-4. Help her to lean on Your promises, trust in Your plan, and find solace and hope in the eternal life offered through Christ. In Jesus’ name, we pray,
Amen.
Bible verses:
- Romans 8:38-39 (ESV): “For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.”
- 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 (ESV): “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.”
- Isaiah 41:10 (ESV): “Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”
- Psalm 34:18 (ESV): “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.”
- Job 13:15 (ESV): “Though he slay me, I will hope in him; yet I will argue my ways to his face.”
Praying for Her Support and Love Through the Church
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You with heavy hearts, lifting [Mother’s Name] into Your loving care. As part of Your Church, a place of comfort, support, and love, we pray that in the midst of her pain and loss, [Mother’s Name] may tangibly feel Your presence through the body of believers.
May the Church extend its open arms and show compassion, reminding her of Your boundless love. As Romans 12:15 instructs us to “Rejoice with those who rejoice; weep with those who weep,” let people come alongside [Mother’s Name], sharing her grief and offering comfort.
May Your Spirit provide [Mother’s Name] with the experience of strength and unity that the Church offers as it reaches out in love, fulfilling the commandment to “love one another” as stated in John 13:34-35. Let her find solace and encouragement in this network of support, and through these connections, renew her hope in the precious name of Jesus. We pray,
Amen.
Bible verses:
- Romans 12:15 (ESV): “Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep.”
- John 13:34-35 (ESV): “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”
Pray that God would help her through the hormonal changes
Honestly speaking, postpartum mothers, especially those who have lost a child in the womb, experience significant emotional distress.
Prayers:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come to You with heavy hearts, lifting [Mother’s name] who has experienced the deep loss of a baby. In the midst of postpartum, hormonal changes may amplify her emotional and physical challenges. We pray for Your grace and comfort to envelop her during this time, granting her the strength to navigate the complex emotions and grief associated with these hormonal shifts. Your Word, in 2 Corinthians 1:3-4, calls You the ‘God of all comfort,’ who brings solace to our hearts and minds.
Help her to recognize that her feelings are valid and remind her that You are near the brokenhearted, as stated in Psalm 34:18. Guide her on this journey of healing and restoration, resting on Your unshakable promises.
As Isaiah 40:29 promises to give strength to the weak and increase the power of the weak, may she find peace that surpasses all understanding as described in Philippians 4:7. Surround her with a community of understanding and supportive believers who can offer a listening ear, a helping hand, and a comforting presence in the name of Jesus, who understands our pain.
We pray, Amen.
Bible verse:
- 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 (ESV): “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.”
- Psalm 34:18 (ESV): “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.”
- Isaiah 40:29 (ESV): “He gives power to the faint, and to him who has no might he increases strength.”
- Philippians 4:7 (ESV): “And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”
Pray that she would lean into Jesus
Dear Heavenly Father,
We lift [Mother’s Name], a mother who has experienced the heart-wrenching loss of a baby. During this time of deep sorrow and uncertainty, we pray that she would lean into Jesus, our ultimate source of strength, comfort, refuge, and solace. Your words in Matthew 11:28-30 invite those who are weary and burdened to come to You, promising rest for their souls. Lord, help [Mother’s Name] to release her burdens and sorrows into Your capable hands, trusting You to carry her through this difficult journey.
As Jesus was a friend to Martha and Mary in their grief, as described in John 11, be a friend to [Mother’s Name], offering peace that surpasses all understanding and helping her to feel Your presence surrounding her with assurance that she is never alone. May her relationship with You deepen as she leans on Your love, grace, and wisdom. In the precious name of Jesus.
We pray, Amen.
Bible verse:
- Matthew 11:28-30 (ESV): “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.”
- John 11:33-35 (ESV): “When Jesus saw her weeping, and the Jews who had come with her also weeping, he was deeply moved in his spirit and greatly troubled. And he said, ‘Where have you laid him?’ They said to him, ‘Lord, come and see.’ Jesus wept.”
Pray that she would treasure Jesus
Dear Heavenly Father,
In the midst of [Mother’s Name]’s profound loss of her precious baby, we humbly come before You asking that You reveal Yourself as her greatest treasure and unwavering hope. During these times of intense sorrow, when she feels lost and adrift, draw [Mother’s Name] close to You. Open her heart to the truth of Your Word and the beauty of Your presence. As Psalm 16:11 states, You make known the path of life; in Your presence there is fullness of joy; at Your right hand are pleasures forevermore. May [Mother’s Name] experience this fullness of joy, knowing You intimately as her Redeemer.
Help her to recognize the purpose in her pain and find restoration in her brokenness. May she discover the treasure that surpasses all others, which anchors her heart, restores her spirit, and guides her through darkness. Isaiah 41:10 reminds us, “Fear not, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” In the name of Jesus, our ultimate hope and Redeemer, we pray,
Amen.
Bible verse:
- Psalm 16:11 (ESV): “You make known to me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore.”
- Isaiah 41:10 (ESV): “Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”
Praying for Wisdom and Ability to Help
Prayers:
Gracious Heavenly Father,
We come before You seeking wisdom and guidance to support [Mother’s Name] as she navigates this painful journey of losing a baby. Help us to be a vessel of Your love, comfort, and understanding in her life. Grant us the discernment to listen sympathetically, to speak words of comfort and encouragement, drawing from Proverbs 12:25 which tells us, “Anxiety in a heart weighs it down, but a good word makes it glad.” May our words be a source of comfort and gladness to [Mother’s Name], even when we don’t see the fruit of our efforts right away.
Give us the opportunity to effectively come alongside her, whether it’s preparing a meal, offering a shoulder to lean on, or being present in moments of silence. Guide our steps and our words, suggesting truth gently, and point her to the ultimate source of hope and healing. May our words dwell richly in our hearts so we can share them with grace and sensitivity, providing the right timing and counsel. In doing so, let us be a reflection of Your love and compassion, pointing to the comforting embrace of Jesus. In His name, we pray,
Amen.
Bible verse:
- Proverbs 12:25 (ESV): “Anxiety in a man’s heart weighs him down, but a good word makes him glad.”
Praying for Her Child’s Legacy to Glorify God
Prayers:
Almighty God,
We come to You with a heavy heart, lifting [Mother’s Name] who has experienced the painful loss of her precious baby. In the midst of this sorrow, we pray that You would work in a remarkable way to use the legacy of her baby for Your glory. We hold on to the promise of Romans 8:28, that all things work for good for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose. May we trust that even these painful experiences can weave a beautiful tapestry that brings honor to Your name.
Help [Mother’s Name] to see the impact her baby’s life can have as far-reaching and long-lasting. Let the memory of her baby inspire acts of kindness, compassion, and love that point people to Jesus. Turn her mourning into dancing, as You did for King David in Psalm 30:11, and replace her healing and joy amidst deep sorrow.
It is hard to fathom how her story can encourage others through their trials, but we pray for a showcase of Your unwavering faithfulness. May the legacy of her baby stand as a testament to Your grace, love, and wisdom, helping her find solace and see the beauty in the ashes. Let her baby’s life story shine brightly for Your glory, in the name of Jesus, who conquered death and offers eternal hope.
Amen.
Bible verse:
- Romans 8:28 (ESV): “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”
- Psalm 30:11 (ESV): “You have turned for me my mourning into dancing; you have loosed my sackcloth and clothed me with gladness.”
Pray that the mama (and dad) would grieve well
Dear Lord,
We pray for both parents, moms and dads, who grieve the loss of their child. It’s important that our prayers for bereaved parents include support as they grieve differently.
Guide them through their pain without misunderstanding or miscommunication, and help them lean on Your Faith Guidance (Proverbs 3:5-6) to navigate this challenging time together. May they understand that it’s not just one, but both parents, who need to grieve well together.
Prayer:
Gracious and Compassionate Father,
We come on behalf of [Mother’s Name] and [Father’s Name] who are enduring a painful journey after losing their beloved baby. Lord, we ask You to lift their grieving hearts and surround them with Your tender presence as they grieve well through the depths of their loss. May they find all their emotions valid and know that You are near the brokenhearted and save the crushed in spirit, as promised in Psalm 34:18.
Help them as they navigate this difficult season, granting them strength to wrestle with difficult questions and the emotions that arise. As they turn their doubts, pains, and uncertainties over to You, let them remember that their struggle is before a sovereign, good, and wise God. Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight (Proverbs 3:5-6).
May they find comfort not in excess work, vices, or escapes, but in resting in Your unchanging love and wisdom. As they hold to the memory of their precious baby, may Your truth in Psalm 30:5 reassure them: Weeping may tarry for the night, but joy comes in the morning. May Your Comfort and presence continue to guide their grief journey, finding solace in the midst of pain. In Jesus’ name, we pray,
Amen.
Bible verse:
- Psalm 34:18 (ESV): “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.”
- Proverbs 3:5-6 (ESV): “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.”
- Psalm 30:5 (ESV): “Weeping may tarry for the night, but joy comes with the morning.”
Scripture as Guidance | Bible Prayers for Bereaved Parents
In our new Advent Scripture Study Guide, we focus on offering daily promises from God’s Word coupled with a short prayer. This format, using Scripture to guide prayers, proves helpful for those who can’t find the words to pray during challenging times.
Each entry in the ebooks is designed to bless, help, and direct the prayers of those grieving, providing hope and a means to intercede spiritually. This approach ensures that each prayer is rooted in biblical truth, offering support and encouragement seamlessly through each page.
Isaiah 54:10 “Though the mountains be shaken and the hills be removed, yet my unfailing love for you will not be shaken nor my covenant of peace be removed,” says the Lord, who has compassion on you.
Isaiah 54:10 reminds us that even in times when the world feels like it’s shaking, much like an earthquake, where mountains may seem shaken and hills flattened, we should replace fear with the knowledge of God’s unfailing love. Thank you, God, for Your promise that no earthly turmoil can take away Your peace or compassion. Let us choose to rest in the powerful name of the risen Christ. Amen.
Psalm 42:11 “Why, my soul, are you downcast? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Savior and my God.”
Psalm 42:11 speaks to those times of deep sadness, reminding us to remember that our only hope is in God. Even when we wonder if the sadness will ever end, this Scripture encourages us to choose to praise our Savior. It teaches us to find delight in God’s presence among His people. Thank you, God, for being our steadfast hope. In Jesus’ name, we pray, Amen.
Psalm 31:9-16 “Be merciful to me, Lord, for I am in distress; my eyes grow weak with sorrow, my soul and body with grief (Psalm 31:9).”
Psalm 31:9-16 reflects the cry of those whose eyes have grown weak with sorrow and soul and body are weighed down with grief. Father, we pray today for all who feel their strength failing under the burden of loss. Lord, pour out your mercy on them, let your face shine upon them, and save them with your unfailing love. Empower them to trust in you and to say, “You are my God; my times are in your hands.” We ask this in the name of our merciful Savior, Jesus Christ, Amen.
Psalm 62:1-8 “Yes, my soul, find rest in God; my hope comes from him. Truly he is my rock and my salvation; he is my fortress, I will not be shaken. My salvation and my honor depend on God; he is my mighty rock, my refuge (Psalm 62:5-7).”
Loving Father,
We pray today for all who are grieving, that they may find rest in you alone. Be their rock of salvation and fortress where they cannot be shaken by the assaults of the evil one. Empower them each day to trust in You and pour their heart out to You, our refuge.
Help them to recognize any unacknowledged anger and give them the courage to express their complicated emotions that come with grief and loss. We ask this in the strong name of your Son, our Savior, with the power of the Holy Spirit, Amen.
Lamentations 3:19-23 “I remember my afflictions… yet I call this to mind and I have hope: because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning (Lamentations 3:21-23).”
This reminds us of the steadfast hope and mercy we can find in the Heavenly Father. Even in the midst of afflictions, as we are facing harsh experiences, there is a promise that His compassion comes afresh anew each day. We pray for the courage to continue to cry out to You, knowing You hear us, Father of compassion. Amen.
Scriptures for Dealing with Grief
- Romans 12:15 “Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.”
- 1 Peter 5:7 “Cast all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you.”
- Psalm 73:26 “My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.”
- John 16:22 “So with you: Now is your time of grief, but I will see you again and you will rejoice, and no one will take away your joy.”
- Philippians 4:13 “I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.”
- Revelation 21:4 “And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away.”
- Romans 8:18 “Yet what we suffer now is nothing compared to the glory he will reveal to us later.”
- Psalm 34:18 “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.”
- Psalm 73:26 “My flesh and my heart faileth: but God is the strength of my heart, and my portion forever.”
- Matthew 5:4 “Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted.”
Scriptures for Comfort
- Psalm 42:11 “Why, my soul, are you downcast? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Savior and my God.”
- John 14:1 “Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me.”
- Romans 12:2 “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.”
- Matthew 11:28-30 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”
- Isaiah 53:4-6 “Surely he took up our pain and bore our suffering, yet we considered him punished by God, stricken by him, and afflicted. But he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was on him, and by his wounds we are healed. We all, like sheep, have gone astray, each of us has turned to our own way; and the Lord has laid on him the iniquity of us all.”
- Joshua 1:9 “Have not I commanded thee? Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the Lord thy God is with thee whithersoever thou goest.”
- Isaiah 41:10 “Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”
- John 14:27 “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.”
- James 1:2-3 “Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance.”
- Proverbs 3:5-6 “Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.”
- 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God.”
Scriptures for Mourning the Loss of a Friend
- 1 Corinthians 15:42-44 “So will it be with the resurrection of the dead. The body that is sown is perishable, it is raised imperishable; it is sown in dishonor, it is raised in glory; it is sown in weakness, it is raised in power; and it is sown a natural body, it is raised a spiritual body. If there is a natural body, there is also a spiritual body.”
- 1 Thessalonians 4:13-18 “Brothers and sisters, we do not want you to be uninformed about those who sleep in death, so that you do not grieve like the rest of mankind, who have no hope. For we believe that Jesus died and rose again, and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him. According to the Lord’s word, we tell you that we who are still alive, who are left until the coming of the Lord, will certainly not precede those who have fallen asleep. For the Lord himself will come down from heaven, with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel and with the trumpet call of God, and the dead in Christ will rise first. After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will be with the Lord forever. Therefore encourage one another with these words.”
- 2 Corinthians 5:8 “We are confident, I say, and would prefer to be away from the body and at home with the Lord.”
- Romans 8:38-39 “For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.”
- Psalm 116:15 “Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his saints.”
Scriptures for Mourning the Loss of a Child
- Matthew 19:14 “But Jesus said, ‘Let the little children come to me and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of heaven.’”
- Matthew 18:14 “So it is not the will of my Father who is in heaven that one of these little ones should perish.”
- Psalm 127:3 “Lo, children are an heritage of the LORD: and the fruit of the womb is his reward.”
- Matthew 18:1-4 “At the same time came the disciples unto Jesus, saying, who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven? And Jesus called a little child unto him, and set him in the midst of them, and said, verily I say unto you, except ye be converted, and become as little children, ye shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven. Whosoever therefore shall humble himself as this little child, the same is greatest in the kingdom of heaven.”
- Psalm 147:3 “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”
Scriptures for Mourning the Loss of a Spouse
- Psalm 48:14 “For this God is our God for ever and ever; he will be our guide even to the end.”
- Psalm 9:9 “The Lord also will be a stronghold for the oppressed, A stronghold in times of trouble.”
- 1 John 3:2 “Dear friends, now we are children of God, and what we will be has not yet been made known. But we know that when Christ appears, we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is.”
- John 11:25 “Jesus said unto her, I am the resurrection, and the life: he that believeth in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live.”
- Psalm 23:4 “Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.”
- Philippians 4:7 “And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”
- Jeremiah 31:3 “Love yesterday, today and forever.”
- Mark 10:9 “Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”
- Luke 23:43 “And he said to him, ‘Truly, I say to you, today you will be with me in Paradise.’”
9 Bible Verses to Comfort a Grieving Mother
In “Bible Verses to Comfort a Grieving Mother”, we encourage opening a physical copy of the Bible and looking up passages with the intent of considering the context in which they were written. For a mother dealing with loss, 1-3 verses from 9 passages can be profoundly comforting.
As you delve into these healing scriptures, allow them to bring solace and hope into your life. Quote these verses while speaking to or listening to those who are suffering, as they often gain greater meaning through shared reflection. Remember, through Faith Guidance (Proverbs 3:5-6), these words can guide and uplift bereaved parents.
- Psalm 34:18: “The LORD is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.”
Psalm 34:18 serves as a profound reminder that in the depths of pain and sorrow, the Lord is intimately close and understands our brokenness. This verse offers profound assurance that God is not only aware of our anguish but also has the power to rescue us from our deepest heart pain. His comforting presence helps us navigate the path to healing, affirming that we are never alone in our struggles.
- Matthew 5:4: “Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.”
In the Beatitudes, Jesus declares that those who mourn are blessed because they will receive comfort. This verse speaks directly to grief-stricken hearts, particularly individuals who have experienced child loss. It serves as a reminder that in our deepest sorrow, there is a promise of solace and support from God Himself, who sees our pain and promises to bring comfort to our weary souls.
- Psalm 147:3: “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”
In the book of Psalms, where expressions of human suffering and lamentation are common, Psalm 147:3 stands out by assuring us that God is aware of our broken hearts and possesses the power to heal and restore. Like a physician who skillfully binds physical wounds, our Maker, who is everything, tenderly tends to the wounds of our hearts with love and compassion, bringing healing to shattered spirits.
- Isaiah 49:15-16a: “Can a woman forget her nursing child, that she should have no compassion on the son of her womb? Even these may forget, yet I will not forget you. Behold, I have engraved you on the palms of my hands.”
Isaiah 49:15-16a uses a powerful metaphor to express God’s unfailing love and care for His people, comparing it to a mother’s love for her nursing child—deep, enduring, and profound. This scripture reassures us that even in pain and loss, we are never forgotten or overlooked by the world; these verses serve as a poignant reminder that each of us is etched on the palms of God’s hands, cherished and remembered forever.
- 2 Corinthians 1:3-4: “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.”
In the apostle Paul’s second letter to the Corinthians, he proclaims that God is the source of all comfort. This comfort not only equips us to extend comfort to others who are hurting, but it also ensures that the solace we receive during our own experiences of affliction can become a means to offer support and encouragement to those who face similar trials. These verses remind us that our healing journey can be transformed into a powerful tool for helping others.
- Psalm 30:5: “For his anger is but for a moment, and his favor is for a lifetime. Weeping may tarry for the night, but joy comes with the morning.”
Psalm 30:5 offers a glimmer of hope in the darkness of grief, assuring us that though we may weep and mourn through the night, joy will eventually arrive. This verse acknowledges the temporary nature of sorrow and points to the promise of lasting joy in the presence of God. It reminds us that while grief may be a present reality, it is not the final chapter in our lives, echoing the sentiments of Psalm 16:11 where true joy is found in God’s presence.
- Psalm 55:22: “Cast your burden on the LORD, and he will sustain you; he will never permit the righteous to be moved.”
Psalm 55:22 offers solace to those burdened by the weight of grief and loss, reminding us that we do not have to carry our burdens alone. God invites us to cast our sorrows upon Him, being confident that He will not only provide strength and support but also sustain us. This verse extends an invitation to entrust our pain to the caring hands of our Heavenly Father, promising to protect and preserve those who seek refuge in Him.
- Psalm 139:13-16: “For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well. My frame was not hidden from you, when I was being made in secret, intricately woven in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed substance; in your book were written, every one of them, the days that were formed for me, when as yet there was none of them.”
Psalm 139:13-16 offers a profound reflection on the sanctity of life and God’s intimate involvement in the formation of a baby. This passage can be difficult to grasp, especially for those who have faced the pain of miscarriage or child loss, but these verses affirm that every life, no matter how brief, holds immeasurable value and significance. It’s a comforting reminder that a departed child has left an indelible mark on our lives and that their purpose was not in vain, echoing the belief that their influence is ongoing.
- Revelation 21:4: “He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.”
In the book of Revelation, we are given a glimpse of the future glory and eternal hope that awaits believers. Revelation 21:4 offers a profound assurance that God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; in His presence, there will be no more death, mourning, crying, or pain. These words paint a vision of ultimate healing and restoration that is in store for our children who we currently grapple with sorrow and loss over. It’s a solace and a promise that the time is coming when all pain will be transformed into everlasting joy.
Prayer:
For a grieving mother, nine Bible verses offer comfort and reminders of hope that God does not stand aloof from her pain. These verses show how the powerful Word of God provides strength and sustenance in the midst of unbearable heartache.
It’s encouraged to take time to read and study these verses, allowing them to penetrate the heart and bring reassurance of the transformative power of God’s Word. This can offer solace and healing, and the ability to extend comfort to others walking a similar path.
Exploring Lessons in Prayer
Pray scripture:
During my four summers as a camp counselor at a Christian camp in the middle of nowhere, I learned how important it is to pray Scripture. The camp leadership taught us that during our Sunday night prayer meetings for the week ahead, using the Bible in our prayers could set a pivotal direction for our life and deepen our connection to God’s word. This practice transformed how we approached each challenge and supported each other spiritually.
Pray in the need:
One important lesson I learned about prayer came in the months after my son passed away. At church one Sunday, with tears streaming down my face at the back of the auditorium, some friends asked how I was doing. Being brutally honest about my pain and sadness, they didn’t shrink back; instead, they leaned in and prayed for my need right there.
With heads bowed and a hand on my shoulder, they prayed over me, not just with well-wishes but with solid Bible truths about how God interacts with our pain. This wasn’t for the faint-of-heart; it was a raw, transformative moment where I truly felt the presence of Jesus through their prayers.
Pray for real treasure:
When heart-broken mamas and well-meaning folks turn to scripture seeking healing for miscarriages and infant loss, it’s essential to approach with a word of caution about prayer and promise. While anointing with oil and praying for a specific outcome is common, sometimes the answer is “no” or “not now.” This should not be held against one’s faith.
For example, Jesus prayed for the cup of suffering to pass, yet He suffered and died on the cross, ultimately submitting to “Father, not my will, but yours be done.” Similarly, the Hebrew children in the book of Daniel faced a fiery furnace rather than bow to the king’s golden statue.
They proclaimed God could deliver them but also declared they would not worship the golden image, regardless of the outcome, as stated in Daniel 3:17-18. This teaches us the real treasure in faith is trust in God’s plan, not merely the desired outcomes.
In the journey of worship, a mama who has lost a child may find it hard to say, “I get it, I want it to work like this.” Like Paul or Job, considered superheroes of faith in Hebrews 11, the real struggle and triumph often lie beyond plain sight. As we pray for bereaved parents, we seek to have their eyes opened to the grace that is our greatest treasure, beyond the immediate pain.
The big picture of the Bible’s meta-narrative shows us that our love for and follow through in faith during the darkest times isn’t just about seeking a good life filled with good gifts; it’s about embracing the greatest gift—a relationship with God, fully aligned in our prayers and focus. In their brokenness and as they pass through the dark valleys of death, may they see, know, and love God deeper than ever before.
Pray the Psalms:
There are some psalms that you have to pray for your bereaved parents for their comfort:
When a bereaved mom or dad prays the Psalms, they find a way to personalize these ancient verses, pouring out their feelings, pain, and questions to God. These prayers become a bridge to connect with comfort and hope while navigating a difficult journey of grief. For example, Psalm 34 speaks of seeking the Lord for deliverance from trouble and reassures us that God is near the brokenhearted. This can be a profound comfort to parents who feel isolated in their sorrow.
Psalm 42 captures the psalmist’s deep longing for God’s presence amidst the pain of the soul, offering a declaration of hope and trust in salvation. Similarly, Psalm 46 describes God as a refuge and strength, especially when the earth gives way, symbolizing the feeling of ground disappearing under one’s feet during times of intense emotional turmoil. Meanwhile, Psalm 91, often called the Psalm of Protection, provides shelter and assurance that God watches over us.
Each Psalm, from Psalm 121’s trust and reliance on God’s help, the Maker of heaven and earth, to Psalm 139’s intimate knowledge of our most vulnerable moments, shows us we are never alone. Psalm 143 directly cries out for guidance and deliverance in weakness, while Psalm 147 underscores God’s care to heal and restore the brokenhearted.
For those wrestling with the grief of life’s injustices, Psalm 73 offers perspective on God’s justice, and Psalm 103 encourages praise and thanksgiving for God’s goodness, mercy, and compassion. These Psalms collectively provide a comprehensive scriptural backdrop for those in sorrow, offering a structured way to find solace and strength.
Story: Healing Through the Psalms
In a quiet corner of her house, Emily sat with tears streaming down her face, months after the devastating loss of her child. The pain was still deep and raw, her dreams and hopes she had nurtured for her child now shattered.
Feeling empty and broken, she turned to her Bible, seeking solace and answers she longed to hold onto in the darkness. As she opened the pages of her well-worn Bible, Psalm 34:18—“The LORD is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit” resonated with her soul. God was speaking to her presence in her pain, and she clung to this verse, reading it over and over, allowing its truth to seep into her wounded heart.
In the days, weeks, and months that followed, Emily continued to immerse herself in healing Scripture verses. Her grieving heart found comfort in Matthew 5:4, which reminded her she was not alone in mourning and that comfort could be found. Psalm 147:3 reassured her that God is the ultimate healer of the broken heart, and Psalm 139:13-16 touched her spirit as she read about God weaving her precious child in the womb.
Though her baby’s time on earth was cut short, reading and meditating on these verses helped her realize that even a tiny life has a purpose, being fearfully and wonderfully made. Her journey through these scriptures brought a glimmer of hope and healing, though the pain may never fully disappear, the comfort in God’s promises became a new foundation in her experience of child loss.
When Emily faced the unimaginable grief of losing her child, she was enveloped by the assurance that her child was now in the arms of a loving God. As she shared her story with others who had experienced similar losses, she discovered that the journey of finding hope and healing resonated deeply.
Scriptures on Success from the Bible became her guide, showing her that even in the darkest moments of child loss, there was a flicker of light to guide her. Verses from Psalms like Psalm 34:18, which says, “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit,” provided profound comfort and restoration.
In the days, weeks, and months following her loss, Emily continued to immerse herself in the healing verses of the Bible. These scriptures, particularly those focusing on child loss and miscarriage, became a lifeline to her, offering solace and reassurance.
They served as a promise of a future where tears would be wiped away and pain would be no more, as described in Revelation 21:4. Through this process, Emily became a testament to the transformative power of God’s Word, inspiring other grieving mothers with her hope and faith.
The community around Emily—friends, family, and even acquaintances—played a crucial role during this time. They showered her with love, from bringing flowers to simply sitting with her, showing that they cared in her time of need.
Each act of kindness was a practical expression of the comfort and love she read about in the scriptures, making the biblical truths about God’s everlasting care and presence feel all the more tangible and real.
Conclusion: The Power of Prayer for Bereaved Parents
The profound sorrow of losing a child is one of the most heartrending experiences a parent can endure. This blog post has shared key prayers rooted in the Bible’s wisdom that can offer immeasurable comfort to a grieving mom or dad. Each prayer is infused with Scripture, providing not just solace but also guidance.
Prayers are a powerful tool for bereaved parents, encouraging them to cry out to God, who is always listening. The feelings of helplessness can be replaced with an urge to intercede for others, strengthening the bond within a loving community and underscoring the promises of God’s empathetic presence in their time of loss.
For those who want to explore deeper, consider downloading the printable guide which includes prayers and lessons on praying Scripture and being present in the need of others. This guide aims to help you find the real treasure in Christ, offering both strength and comfort while fostering a renewed faith.
By engaging with the Psalms and other Scriptures, bereaved parents can find both solace and guidance, surrounded by a community that supports their journey toward healing. The ultimate source of hope remains the steadfast love and promises of God, always ready to interact with our pain and offer support.
FAQs
What is the comforting scripture for grieving parents?
When parents are grieving, the Bible provides deep comfort through its scriptures. Psalm 34:18 says, “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit,” offering reassurance that God is with us in our darkest times, ready to heal our shattered heart and overwhelmed spirit.
Similarly, Matthew 5:4 states, “Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted,” a promise that those suffering from loss will receive divine consolation. Having experienced loss myself, I find these verses not just comforting but essential, reminding us that our God will always be our portion and source of strength, providing steadfast comfort and support forever.
What scripture prayer for grieving family?
In times of grief, families can find solace and hope in the God who is described in Psalm 62:6-8 as “my rock and my salvation, my fortress; I shall not be shaken.” This passage encourages us to depend on God as our unshakable refuge, providing rest for our weary souls and a place where our fears are calmed.
In prayer, we honor our Loving Father by trusting that He is mighty enough to bear our burdens and assure us that we are not alone. As someone who has felt the sharp sting of loss, I understand the importance of these words and pray that they offer the same rest and reassurance to other grieving families, anchoring them in a time when all else seems lost.
What Bible verse is the message of comfort to the bereaved family?
1 Thessalonians 4:13-14 offers comfort to the bereaved, saying, “Brothers and sisters, we do not want you to be uninformed about those who sleep in death, so that you do not grieve like the rest of mankind, who have no hope.” This verse reassures us that our mourning is not without comfort or hope, grounding us in the Bible’s promise of reunion.
What is the best prayer for the bereaved family?
“Almighty Father, in this time of grief, let Your loving care surround this family. May Your presence bring peace and solace, Your word be their source of strength, and Your wisdom guide their path.” This prayer offers comfort and support, acknowledging God’s role as a dear friend in times of sorrow.
